The Seven Steps To Gaining Sexual Mastery And Waving goodbye to Premature Ejaculation

Gaining mastery in bed comes from gaining mastery over your body, emotions and mind. You have to understand how these things tie into one another. Sexuality is not isolated to the genital area. Sexuality involves your whole being.

For years I had been fighting with the problem doing thousands of different techniques without addressing where my main problems were. These were my emotions about myself and my sexuality.

The moment I started forgiving myself and working on transforming myself it created a space within myself that allowed me to work constructively on my issues instead of always beating myself down. This process started for me during a 3 week meditation retreat that I held where I allowed myself to go in and look very deeply at a lot of emotions which had continually been disturbing me for many years.

Clearing out emotional issues was the starting point for me, which opened me up to all the other things which also are necessary for gaining sexual mastery. After clearing some important emotional issues I saw results immediately in my ability to last longer in bed.

After clearing my emotions I saw the bigger picture. In those weeks of meditation I had been quietly contemplating my sexual energy allowing me to isolate it and thereby see how sexual energy transmutes to other energies in the body and psyche. I saw how my sexual energy would rise as an impulse in my mind and affect my thoughts and emotions. I gained insight into how my lifestyle was affecting sexuality, I observed how diet affected my sexual energy and I saw how my attitude towards women played an important role in all of this.

But most importantly I saw how my emotions about sexuality and premature ejaculation held me in a vicious cycle always making me resonate more with the problems than the solutions.

While in the meditation I was also experimenting with relaxing as much as possible in the whole body and in the pelvic muscles and the results this had were absolutely staggering. I observed how sexual energy in the pelvic region transmutes to other kinds of energy in the body empowering my being and sending me into one high meditation state to the next. I had heard all the theory about it but now I was directly witnessing it myself.

This new vision on sexuality lead to the breakthrough I had been looking for for years allowing me the clarity to see the TantraCURE system in its first outlines.

You see, it became very clear to me that in order to stop premature ejaculation you have to go through the following steps:

1) Emotional Clearing
2) Learning to Relax
3) Finding your Hormonal Typology and Balancing your Hormones
4) Learning to Manage Your Sexual Energy
5) Mastering your Arousal
6) Building up Your Masculinity
7) Having The Proper Lovemaking Skills

This all sounds very good, But how do I make this work for Me??

Now huddle up close because I’ll tell you how it all works …

Coming to terms with premature ejaculation you have to go through this process:

Step 1: Feeling Good About Yourself

There are many detrimental emotions surrounding premature ejaculation such as guilt, denial, ignorance and performance anxiety. As long as you hold on to these emotions surrounding your sexuality, you literally channel your sexual energy into them, making them grow. I am not asking you to go into therapy or anything. But I will show you some very simple exercises that will clear out your emotions over a short time span, helping you regain your focus and clarity and show you how you can anchor this state so you can bring it forth in the “times of need”.

Step 2: Learning to Relax

If you want to last longer you have to learn to relax!
Are you one of those guys that are so tense that just the touch of her thighs will make you go off?
Or are you one of those guys that relies thinking about unsexy things such as grandma or broccoli to avoid getting over aroused?
In both of these situations your tension causes you to repress the sexual energy instead of letting it flow through you.
According to modern research of the human nervous system, being in a relaxed state while performing, helps you to last longer.

Step 3: Lifestyle, Diet and Hormones

What you eat and how you live your life has a HUGE influence on your hormonal levels, which again affect your sexual performance dramatically.
According to neuro science it turns out that we can roughly be divided into 4 categories depending on what kind of hormones we are most receptive to.
Instead of popping hormone pills promising to cure PE, leading to a truckload of horrible side effects- why not balance your hormones in a natural way?
Luckily it’s dead simple to find out which typology you are and then you can start eating the right food and live the right lifestyle.

Step 4: Sexual Energy Management.

Did you ever notice that if you’re on edge and there´s too much sexual tension, that taking a cold shower helps or perhaps even going out for a jog or swim? Well that’s because sexual energy can be transformed into other kinds of energy in your being in a kind of fascinating inner alchemic process.
Top achievers all know this! Athletes refrain from ejaculation before a big event because they channel the sexual energy into top performance on the big day. Great politicians also know the necessity of channeling their sexual energy into the focus and charisma needed during major rallies and conventions.
Did you know that this is actually a very precise science? Did you know that you can channel your sexual energy at will?

Let me share with you a secret that is a known fact among advanced practitioners of Tantra- that men who can channel their sexual energy can acquire a huge range of remarkable skills. For example, a man who can channel his sexual energy to certain psychic centers is able to enter a room and give the women in the room orgasms without even touching them. His presence alone will trigger their arousal. Such is the power of magnetic sexual energy. These skills are not learned overnight though and do need a certain level of diligence and discipline.

BUT REST ASSURED – One thing is for sure: When you start harnessing your sexual energy, premature ejaculation will toss the towel into the ring, pack its bags and leave you for good.

Step 5: Mastering your Arousal:

Are you one of those men that go from a state of nervous arousal to ejaculating without knowing what happens between these two states? 

Men are in general “binary” in nature. They’re either “off” (totally not aroused) or “on” (completely over the top horny).

Through simple exercises performed on a daily basis you can learn to recognize and to stay in different degrees of arousal. This makes you able to control your arousal level, keeping you away from the edge so you can avoid those embarrassing situations.

Step 6: Masculinity

Masculinity is an essential factor when it comes to lasting long

With premature ejaculation you enter a vicious cycle. To perform well you need to feel self confident and centered, but each time you ejaculate too early, part of that confidence fades away leading you to perform worse the next time.
With masculinity comes virility, self control, overview and self confidence. Building those qualities will help you to control sexual energy and performance.
I will show you some masculine attitudes and principles that help you to stay on top in dealing with women; in flirting, dating, lovemaking and relationships.

Step 7: The Proper Lovemaking Skills

You need skills and proper knowledge to make love for as long as you want.
Let me share with you an example that most men don’t know:

Foreplay is more important for men than for women.

Yes, you heard me right.
The reason is simple- foreplay calms you down and puts you in contact with your physical body.
Most men just rush straight for the penetration, and don’t know how to touch women in a way that brings the woman pleasure either.

Also, certain positions facilitate your ability to last longer, while other positions are dangerous and difficult for you to control.
Doing certain things in the right time and right order, not only gives her great pleasure but helps you to prolong lovemaking.

Not understanding these simple steps is ultimately what leads men to ejaculate too early.

In my work with men, I have discovered that the main reasons causing men suffer from premature ejaculation usually lie within 3 or 4 of the 7 areas, but all men will definitely benefit by going through all of the steps.

Learning to control arousal and lovemaking techniques are definitely a must. Even men who don’t suffer from PE can dramatically improve their lovemaking by deepening their knowledge and prowess in these areas.

By educating yourself in all the steps you definitely will become a great lover.

INTRODUCING TantraCURE!
NOW YOU CAN CURE PREMATURE EJACULATION BY IMPLEMENTING THE 7 STEPS IN YOUR LIFE

The TantraCURE method comes with a manual describing the 7 steps in detail and a 12 week exercise program that incorporates the most important techniques from the 7 steps so you can start taking action right away solving this problem that has caused you grief for so long.

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